Best Selling Books by Greg Behrendt

Based on an episode of "Sex and the City," offers a lighthearted, no-nonsense look at dead-end relationships, providing advice for letting go and moving on.

The latest book by Greg Behrendt, author of the multi-million plus copy bestseller ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’, is another hilarious, wry and wise take on relationships and how to move on when one goes sour.

There’s no doubt about it—breakups suck. But in the first few hours or weeks that follow, there’s one important truth you need to recognize: Some things can’t and shouldn’t be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. It’s called a breakup because it’s broken, and starting right here, right now, it’s time to dry your tears, put down that pint of ice cream, log out of his email, and open this book to chapter one—and start turning your breakup into a breakover. From Greg Behrendt, coauthor of the smash, two-million-copy bestseller He’s Just Not That Into You, comes It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken—the ultimate survival guide to getting over Mr. Wrong and reclaiming your inner Superfox. From how to put yourself through “He-tox” to how to throw yourself a kick-ass pity party, Greg and his coauthor and wife, Amiira, share their hilarious and helpful roadmap for getting past the heartache and back into the game. You will learn: Why you shouldn’t call him—and what he’s thinking when you do How to keep your friends and not lose your job How to avoid breakup pitfalls: IM-ing, stalking, having sex with your ex Reframing reality—seeing the relationship for what it was How to transform yourself into a hot, happening Superfox and get a jump on the better, brighter future that awaits Complete with an essential workbook to help you put the crazy down on paper and not take it out into the world, It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken is a must-have manual for finding your way back to an even more rocking you.

A hilarious and hopeful primer to prevent, combat, and eliminate the suckage in modern marriage by doing it right in the early years, from one of the minds behind the series Sex and the City and the New York Times bestselling authors of He’s Just Not That Into You, It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken, and It’s Just a F***ing Date Some marriages start out storybook. Perfect proposal, perfect engagement, perfect wedding, perfect honeymoon, and perfect newlywed years. Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola stumbled right out of the wedding gate. Their choices in the early years, they’ll tell you, nearly bought their marriage a one-way ticket to Suckville. The New York Times bestselling authors explore all the adventures of early wedlock, from the moment one of you gets on one knee to the day when sex starts to feel like work instead of play. In this guidebook, Behrendt and Ruotola explore their own marriage and, with gleeful candor, tremendous warmth, sharp humor, and piercing insight, look at what we who have decided to “settle down” hope to get out of our most lasting relationship. We venture through volumes on the engagement, wedding planning, the Big Day, the wedding hangover, the (blissful?) first year, the hard work of marrying two lives, fights, and sex-pectations versus sex-pectreality. The perfect book for those who have just put a ring on it or are thinking of putting a ring on it, Behrendt and Ruotola’s work is a brilliant guide for the first stretch of that wild ride we call marriage.

A fresh and fun guide to dating from the #1 New York Times bestselling coauthor of He''s Just Not That Into You and How to Keep Your Marriage From Sucking. "Jam-packed with straight-talking tips . . . and quite frankly, we can''t put it down."— The Sun Why does dating have to be so hard? It doesn''t! Stop trying to out-game the system and relax. It''s Just a F***ing Date presents the tools, not the rules, for bringing back the art of the date. The ordeals of 21st-century dating, from online dating and hooking up to pulling the plug when it isn''t working, will soon be easy to navigate. With tips to define what is and isn''t a date, how to get asked out, and setting your own dating standards, dating won''t seem old-fashioned, it will be fun. Bestselling authors Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola return to the minefield of modern relationships with this revised and updated edition. Praise for He''s Just Not That Into You "No ego-soothing platitudes. No pop psychology. No cute relationship tricks. He''s just not that into you."— The Washington Post "Brims with straight talk about the boy-meets-girl game, delivered with hefty doses of humor from the Y chromosome''s mouth."— USA Today "A surprisingly fascinating addition to the cultural canon of single, urban life."— Los Angeles Times "Evil genius."— The New York Times Praise for It''s Called a Breakup Because It''s Broken "You will get through this, and you''ll do it faster with the help of It''s Called a Breakup Because It''s Broken."— Glamour "Behrendt''s frankness—never too harsh—is as winning as ever."— Publishers Weekly "Insightful, been-there-have-the-scars-to-prove-it wisdom."— New York Post

This essential guide to the New York Times bestseller employs real-life dating vignettes and stingingly amusing insights into the minds of men. This unique book prompts the reader to entertain the notion that he''s just not that into you, freeing her up to go find the one who is!

The fab new guide to dating co-authored by Greg Behrendt, former writer on Sex and the City, who won women''s hearts with his two million copy bestseller ''He''s Just Not That Into You''.

He’s Just Not That Into You—based on a popular episode of Sex and the City—is tough love advice for otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn’t like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. It’s the best relationship advice you’ll ever receive. For ages, women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. He’s afraid to get hurt again. Maybe he doesn’t want to ruin the friendship. Maybe he’s intimidated by me. He just got out of a relationship. Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that—despite good intentions—you’re wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they’d like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages. The truth may be, He’s just not that into you. Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, “You''re not the one.” But their actions absolutely show how they feel. Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo’s wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean, “I’m in love with you and want to be with you.” He’s Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman’s night table. It knows you’re a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start “figuring him out,” consider the glorious thought that maybe, He’s just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is. This NEWLY EXPANDED EDITION includes: a new foreword from Greg Behrendt; a new chapter—providing an honest look at the stages of life after He''s Just Not That Into You, according to Liz, including exaltation, loneliness, temptation, and balance; and Greg and Liz address the most frequently asked reader questions.

Wanita memang fitrahnya suka meluah. Mereka gemar berbincang sesama sendiri tentang pelbagai perkara, termasuklah perihal perhubungan, cinta, dan lelaki. Mereka mampu duduk berbincang selama berjam-jam sambil menganalisa hati lelaki yang kononnya begitu kompleks untuk difahami. Hakikatnya, Lelaki tidak kompleks. Sangat tidak kompleks! Jikalau mereka suka, mereka suka. Jikalau mereka tidak suka, mereka tidak suka. Itu sahaja. Soalnya sekarang, mereka tidak akan beritahu sekiranya mereka tidak punya perasaan, atau tidak cukup suka pada seseorang wanita itu. Mereka lebih suka memilih untuk melakukan perkara-perkara yang akhirnya akan mengelirukan wanita itu sendiri. Menerusi buku He''s Just Not That Into You Edisi Bahasa Melayu ini, Greg Behrendt dan Liz Tuccillo akan membantu pembaca memahami hakikat apabila seorang lelaki tidak menyimpan perasaan istimewa terhadap seorang wanita.

A fabulous new guide to dating co-authored by Greg Behrendt, former writer on Sex and the City, who won women''s hearts with his three million copy bestseller He''s Just Not That Into You.

Das Muss für jede Single-Frau! Seit Urzeiten wundern sich Frauen über das rätselhafte Verhalten des geschlechtsreifen Mannes: Vielleicht will er es langsam angehen. Freundschaft ist ihm wichtiger als Sex. Bestimmt ist sein Akku leer ... Alles Quatsch! Greg Behrendt und Liz Tuccillo sagen den Frauen endlich die Wahrheit: Sie verschwenden Ihre Zeit! Männer sind nicht kompliziert. Und sie senden keine undeutlichen Signale aus, denn ihre Taten sprechen deutlicher als alle Worte: »Wenn er dich will, lässt er ́s dich wissen. Sonst steht er eben nicht auf dich!«

Desde hace siglos, las mujeres se pasan horas intentando comprender la conducta desconcertante de los hombres, y oyendo frases como «Debe de tener miedo de que le hagan daño otra vez». «Puede que no quiera arruinar nuestra amistad» y «Lo que pasa es que a

Da questo libro il film La verità è che non gli piaci abbastanza (He''s Just Not That into You) di Ken Kwapis con Scarlett Johansson, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Ben Affleck e Bradley Cooper. «Un fulmineo boom editoriale... Il segreto del successo: ironia e dura franchezza.» La Repubblica «Niente banalità consolatorie, niente psicologia da quattro soldi, niente scorciatoie ammiccanti.» Washington Post Che cos''è un uomo? La più grande sega mentale della donna! Lui le racconta e tu te le bevi: scuse, bugie, giustificazioni, tutte belle parole, spesso anche profonde e apparentemente sensate. Peccato che vadano a cozzare con le sue azioni, che invece urlano, chiaro e tondo: "Non mi piaci abbastanza!" E se non ci pensa lui a giustificarsi, ci pensi tu, arrovellandoti, ossessionando le amiche, sprecando lacrime e sonno: "Forse non vuole rovinare la nostra amicizia", "Non è colpa sua, ma della sua famiglia", "È troppo preso dal lavoro", "Ha paura di soffrire di nuovo". Scendi dal pero! Il suo comportamento non è strano, non è contraddittorio: se un uomo ti vuole, te lo fa capire. Se non ti vuole, invece cerca di svicolare, si nasconde dietro mille scuse, e magari è capace pure di dare la colpa a te! In questa guida, due sceneggiatori della fortunata serie televisiva Sex and the City, un uomo, ex campione di scuse, e una donna, campionessa in carica di seghe mentali, insegnano come riconoscere le giustificazioni vere da quelle false: un esilarante botta e risposta fra donne in crisi e l''esperto, consigli, rivelazioni ("Gli uomini sanno come funziona un telefono"), divieti ("Non stare altri dieci minuti con lui se noti uno dei seguenti comportamenti..."), aneddoti personali, esercizi pratici, per non perdere altro tempo e smettere di farsi illusioni. Un libro senza mezzi termini, divertente ironico, acuto, e di una franchezza salutare. Il libro-manuale per smascherare le scuse che gli uomini raccontano e le donne si bevono.

From the bestselling relationship authors, including one of the minds behind the series Sex and the City, comes the follow-up to How to Keep Your Marriage From Sucking, a humorous and practical guide to keeping love aflame after newlywed bliss is over. Kids, jobs, seven-year itch, etc., etc., etc.... Everyone can do "For Better" but do you have what it takes to do "For Worse?"

Wanita memang fitrahnya suka meluah. Mereka gemar berbincang sesama sendiri tentang pelbagai perkara, termasuklah perihal perhubungan, cinta, dan lelaki. Mereka mampu duduk berbincang selama berjam-jam sambil menganalisa hati lelaki yang kononnya begitu kompleks untuk difahami. Hakikatnya, Lelaki tidak kompleks. Sangat tidak kompleks! Jikalau mereka suka, mereka suka. Jikalau mereka tidak suka, mereka tidak suka. Itu sahaja. Soalnya sekarang, mereka tidak akan beritahu sekiranya mereka tidak punya perasaan, atau tidak cukup suka pada seseorang wanita itu. Mereka lebih suka memilih untuk melakukan perkara-perkara yang akhirnya akan mengelirukan wanita itu sendiri. Menerusi buku “10 Tanda Lelaki Tidak Mencintai Wanita” ataupun judul asalnya He’s Just Not That Into You, Greg Behrendt dan Liz Tuccillo akan membantu pembaca memahami hakikat apabila seorang lelaki tidak menyimpan perasaan istimewa terhadap seorang wanita.

Und es gibt doch ein Leben nach der Trennung! Trennungen sind schrecklich – aber aufgewärmte Beziehungen sind noch schlimmer. Wer kennt solche Sätze nicht: „So schlecht war es ja gar nicht.“ – „Ich werde nie einen besseren Mann finden.“ – Doch! Natürlich gibt es bessere Männer, und natürlich wird man diese Trennung überstehen. Denn nicht umsonst heißt es „Schluss machen“ – weil die Beziehung nämlich längst am Ende ist! Greg Behrendt über katastrophale Telefonanrufe, Sex mit dem Ex und die Tatsache, dass Ex-Lover niemals Freunde sein können. Der ultimative, hinreißend komische und einfach unverzichtbare Survival-Guide für den Anfang nach dem (Beziehungs-)Ende!