Best Selling Books by Emerson Eggerichs

Come discover one of the greatest secrets to a successful relationship! Love & Respect is A New York Times?best-selling marriage book making a difference with over two million copies sold! Help you and your spouse achieve a deeper level of intimacy by stopping the crazy cycle of conflict, developing better communication skills, and enjoying renewed passion. Cracking the communication code between husband and wife involves understanding one thing: that unconditional respect is as powerful for him as unconditional love is for her. It''s the secret to marriage that every couple seeks, and yet few couples ever find. While both men and women deserve both love and respect, in the midst of conflict the driving need for a woman is love and the driving need for a man is respect. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy. Based on over three decades of counseling, as well as scientific and biblical research, Love and Respect is for anyone: those in marital crisis, the happily married, engaged couples, pastors and counselors, and small groups. This dynamic and life-changing message is impacting the world, resulting in the healing and restoration of countless relationships. In Love & Respect couples can find: How to break down the communication code between spouses How to handle conflict in a relationship How to build respect for one another How to foster a deep love for one another How to rekindle passion for one another Taking God’s biblical practice of marriage and applying it with practical techniques, Emerson Eggerichs shows how mutual Love and Respect can balance a marriage and encourage a successful relationship. Pair Love & Respect?with the Love & Respect Workbook for Couples, Individuals, and Groups for an added experience and to dig deeper into your relationship and foster understanding with your partner. Love & Respect?is also available in Spanish, Amor y Respeto.

Discover the single greatest secret to a successful marriage! The Love & Respect Workbook will help you and your spouse achieve a deeper level of intimacy by stopping the crazy cycle of conflict, initiating energizing change, and enjoying renewed passion. Cracking the communication code between husband and wife involves understanding one thing: that unconditional respect is as powerful for him as unconditional love is for her. It''s the secret to marriage that every couple seeks, and yet few couples ever find. While both men and women deserve both love and respect, in the midst of conflict the driving need for a woman is love and the driving need for a man is respect. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy. Based on over three decades of counseling, as well as scientific and biblical research, the Love and Respect Workbook is for anyone: those in marital crisis, the happily married, engaged couples, pastors and counselors, and small groups. This dynamic and life-changing message is impacting the world, resulting in the healing and restoration of countless relationships. In this workbook companion to the original book, you’ll discover: 14 sessions that cover the entire Love & Respect book Scripture studies to guide you in times of meditation and prayer Specific questions for both husband and wife Designed for use by individuals and couples Use this workbook to refresh and renew your relationship and learn how to deal with conflict quickly, easily, and biblically. What readers are saying about the Love & Respect phenomenon: "I''ve been married 35 years and have not heard this taught." "This is the key that I have been missing." "You connected all the dots for me." "As a counselor, I have never been so excited about any material." "You’re on to something huge here."

The secret to parenting success is out! Children need love, parents need respect. It''s as simple and complex as that. Bestselling author Dr. Emerson Eggerichs has studied family dynamics for more than 30 years, earning a Ph.D. in Child and Family Ecology. As a senior pastor for nearly two decades, he builds on a foundation of strong biblical principles, walking the reader through an entirely new way to approach the family dynamic. When frustrated with an unresponsive child, a parent doesn’t declare, “You don’t love me.” Instead, the parent asserts, “You are being disrespectful right now.” A parent needs to feel respected, especially during conflicts. When upset a child does not whine, “You don’t respect me.” Instead, a child pouts, “You don’t love me.” A child needs to feel loved, especially during disputes. But here’s the rub: An unloved child or teen negatively reacts in a way that feels disrespectful to a parent. A disrespected parent negatively reacts in a way that feels unloving to the child. This dynamic gives birth to the FAMILY CRAZY CYCLE. This book teaches you to: See love and respect as basic family needs Stop the Family Crazy Cycle of conflict Parent in six biblical ways that energize your children Discipline defiance and overlook childishness Be the mature one since parenting is for adults only Become a loving parent in God''s eyes, regardless of a child''s response Based on what the Bible says about parenting, this book focuses on achieving healthy family dynamics. Dr. Eggerichs offers unprecedented transparency from his wife and three adult children, who share wisdom gained from the good, the bad, and the ugly of their family life. It''s all here in this eye-opening exploration of the biblical principles on parenting that can help make families function as God intended.

When will we learn? With every sunrise we are given plenty of new examples of people “Hitting Send” and soon regretting it. Social media means what it says: it is social! Our methods of communication today allow for something to potentially be broadcast to everyone from Pekin, Illinois to Peking, China. But it’s not only Twitter fanatics who can find themselves in trouble. Every single one of us is capable of falling prey to this growing plague. Every day we have the potential of both verbal and written blunders. It makes no difference if we are talking to a stranger over a meat counter, chatting on a cell phone with our mother, or sending an e-mail to a coworker; we can and do miscommunicate and people can and do get the wrong idea. When we don''t pause long enough to think before speaking or writing, it commonly yields a misunderstanding and leads to a clash. We end up being the person who said, “You know that sphere of the brain that stops you from saying something that you shouldn''t? Well, I don’t have one of those.” This book is about preventing that misunderstanding and allowing for understanding. Said another way, preempting people from getting the wrong idea and enabling them to get the right idea! We all need work in this area in far more ways than just glancing through a checklist. From external examples to internal turmoil, Before You Hit Send is about the four things we must think through before communicating. In all things we wish to say or write, we would be wise to ask ourselves, Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? Is it clear? When we ask and answer these four questions honestly, we will be thinking wisely before we speak. But to explore this fully, we need to find out a whole lot more about ourselves and uncover why we consciously and subconsciously get into these communication disasters to begin with. You may be surprised what you discover about yourself. Shall we begin?

From the New York Times best-selling author of Love & Respect comes the definitive book for mothers and sons. Love is important, but it is respect that is the key to your son’s heart. Dads and their boys are often best buddies. But what''s the key to a successful and healthy mother-son bond? Informed by relevant scripture and up-to-date psychological research, Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D., explores this foundational relationship to show how loving and respecting your little boy can help him grow into a mature, responsible, and godly man. The idea of moms respecting their sons may sound strange to some. It''s easy to recognize that little girls need dad’s love, but who is strongly promoting the truth that little boys (and big ones) need mom''s respect? In Mothers & Sons: The Respect Effect, readers will discover: Why respect matters in a mother-son relationship A method based on the testimonies of thousands of mothers Specific responses that can be given instead of how you would “normally” respond Practical applications, especially for parenting teen boys Just as Emerson Eggerichs transformed millions of marital relationships with a biblical understanding of love and respect, you can apply these same principles to transform your relationship with your son. Mother & Son is also available in Spanish, Madre e hijo.

Why does communication between couples remain the number one marriage issue? Because most spouses don''t know that they speak two different languages. Communication expert Dr. Emerson Eggerichs says that the problem is couples are sending each other messages in ''code,'' but they won''t crack that code until they see that she listens to hear the language of love and he listens to hear the language of respect. Dr. Eggerichs'' best-selling book, Love and Respect, launched a revolution in how couples relate to each other. In The Language of Love and Respect, you will discover: The basic communication differences between men and women A biblical perspective with easy-to-use tips and advice A quick review and summary for each chapter This book offers a practical, step-by-step approach for how husbands and wives can learn to speak each other’s distinctly different language -- respect for him, love for her. The result is mutual understanding and a successful, happy marriage. Previously released as Cracking the Communication Code.

"A fifty-two week devotional that will appeal to both wives and husbands as they seek to listen to what God has to say to them." -- Back cover.

A Marriage Book with a Difference! A Revolutionary Message "I''ve been married 35 years and have not heard this taught." "This is the key that I have been missing." "You connected all the dots for me." "As a counselor, I have never been so excited about any material." "You''re on to something huge here." A Simple Message A wife has one driving need--to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need--to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy. When either of these needs isn''t met, things get crazy. Love and Respect reveals why spouses react negatively to each other, and how they can deal with such conflict quickly, easily, and biblically. A Message That Works Based on over three decades of counseling, as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs and his wife, Sarah, have already taken the Love and Respect message across America and are changing the way couples talk to, think about, and treat each other. What do you want for your marriage? Want some peace? Want to feel close? Want to feel valued? Want to experience marriage the way God intended? Then why not try some Love and Respect.

When you touch your spouseÆs deepest need, something good almost always happens! Based on three decades of counseling and research, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs leads couples through the intricacies of a marriage built on Love and Respect. He explores the differences in men and women and how a husbandÆs need for respect can be balanced by a wifeÆs need for love. When these needs are mutually recognized and made a priority, a fulfilling and meaningful marriage will be the inevitable result. Love and Respect for a Lifetime makes the ideal gift: ItÆs all color, photo-filled design makes it inviting for couples to look at together. It is a compilation of Dr. Eggerichs best Love & Respect tips: a quick and easy read that proves enticing to a spouse that might be apprehensive of working through an entire study or book. ItÆs engaging message validates the core needs of each spouse and gives a message of hope, encouragement and practical time-tested solutions for every marriage rather than focusing on placing blame or judging. ItÆs ideal as a gift for dating or engaged couples, as well as a wedding or anniversary gift. ItÆs elegant design invites the recipients to open, read it together and leave out as a display for others to take a closer look at what it means to love her and to respect him.

An in-depth study of the vital principles from the best-selling Cracking the Communication Code now in workbook form. Communication between couples has been dissected in thousands of books and articles, so why does it remain the number one marriage problem? "Because," says Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, "most spouses don''t know that they speak two different languages. They are sending each other messages in ''code,'' but they won''t crack that code until they see that she listens to hear the language of love and he listens to hear the language of respect." Dr. Eggerichs'' best-selling book, Love and Respect, launched a revolution in how couples relate to each other. Now with the Cracking the Communication Code companion workbook, the message of this hardcover trade book can be studied and applied whether for a group or for individual couples. The result will be better communication, mutual understanding, and a successful godly marriage.

In this couples'' devotional based on the classic bestseller, Eggerichs surveyed thousands of couples to develop 52 devotionals around the three cycles that are at the heart of Love and Respect. Emerson Eggerichs has transformed marriages around the world with his biblically based approach to understanding the love that she most desires and the respect that he desperately needs. Now, in this long-awaited devotional based on Love & Respect, Emerson has created an experience for couples that is effective, flexible, and life changing. To build this couples devotional, Eggerichs has taken the top concerns that surfaced in a survey of thousands of couples and has developed 52 devotionals around the three cycles that are at the heart of Love and Respect. On one occasion the couple will be talking about how to stop the Crazy Cycle or keep it at bay. The next devotional will discuss a concept built upon the Rewarded Cycle, which stresses the ultimate purpose for marriage. And the next may have both people talking about ways to use the Energizing Cycle in their efforts to love and respect each other. This long-awaited devotional: Contains 52 devotions specifically guided to couples’ most common concerns Can be done weekly or at your chosen pace Is husband and wife friendly, written to ensure both are comfortable in the process Supplemental video studies are also available for purchase With this wealth of new material and video devotionals available online, The Love & Respect Devotional will be indispensable to anyone wishing to improve their marital relationship.

Dr. Eggerichs'' best-selling book, Love and Respect, launched a revolution in how couples relate to each other. Now with The Language of Love and Respect companion workbook, the message of this book can be studied and applied for groups or individual couples. The result will be better communication, understanding, and a successful godly marriage.

An in-depth study of the vital principles from the best-selling Cracking the Communication Code now in workbook form. Communication between couples has been dissected in thousands of books and articles so why does it remain the number one marriage problem? "Because," says Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, "most spouses don''t know that they speak two different languages. They are sending each other messages in ''code,'' but they won''t crack that code until they see that she listens to hear the language of love and he listens to hear the language of respect." Dr. Eggerichs'' best-selling book, Love and Respect, launched a revolution in how couples relate to each other. Now with the Cracking the Communication Code companion workbook, the message of this hardcover trade book can be studied and applied whether for a group or for individual couples. The result will be better communication, mutual understnding, and a successful godly marriage.

A Revolutionary Solution to the #1 Marriage Problem Why does communication between couples remain the number one marriage issue? "Because," says Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, "most spouses don''t know that they speak two different languages. They are sending each other messages in ''code,'' but they won''t crack that code until they see that she listens to hear the language of love and he listens to hear the language of respect." Dr. Eggerichs'' best-selling book, Love & Respect, launched a revolution in how couples relate to each other. In The Language of Love & Respect, he presents a practical, step-by-step approach for how husbands and wives can learn to speak each other''s distinctly different language--respect for him, love for her. The result is mutual understanding and a successful, happy marriage. Previously released as Cracking the Communication Code

Say goodbye to misunderstandings and hello to meaningful connections. From bestselling author, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs comes an invigorating approach to communication in our modern, digital era—where every interaction can shape our lives. Whether you’re chatting with a friend, emailing a coworker, or having a heart-to-heart talk with your spouse, miscommunication can result in hurt feelings and misunderstanding. Speak Your Mind is your guide to navigating daily conversations with confidence, wisdom, and clarity. This book will help you master the art of communicating by teaching you to consider four essential questions before you speak or write: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? Is it clear? By sincerely engaging with these questions, you will begin unlocking the secrets of powerful communication, ensuring you say what you mean and mean what you say. Speak Your Mind, an inspired and revised update of Before You Hit Send, features a new survey offering personalized recommendations to help you lean into your communicative strengths and pinpoints areas for growth. Unlock the power of clear communication today!

Based upon Ephesians 5:33 and extensive biblical and psychological research, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs reveals the power of unconditional love and unconditional respect and how husbands and wives can reap the benefits of marriage that God intended. **Also includes the Workbook.**

Should you take the job? Quit the job? Begin a relationship? End a relationship? Move? Plant roots? How do we find God’s will for life''s big decisions? What if you had total freedom? Emerson Eggerichs believes there is a clear answer to finding God’s will. The Bible itself reveals the clue--a secret hidden in plain sight. Before launching his Love & Respect marriage ministry with wife Sarah, Emerson was a senior pastor for nearly 20 years in East Lansing Michigan. Before that, Emerson and a friend ran a free counseling center called “The Open Door” in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. As Emerson navigated his career he found both he and the people he was counseling were wrestling with big decisions and knowing if that decision was really what God wanted. Immersing himself in God’s word for over 30 hours a week for 19 years, he discovered simple, clear truths that set him and many others free. There is a starting point to discovering God’s Will for your next decision and for your entire life. Begin here to read stories of people in the same situations you face today. You’ll be able to discover the freedom you’ve been searching for, and then, like Emerson, you’ll help others find that freedom too.

Descubra el mas grande secreto para un matrimonio exitoso. ?Que quiere usted para su matrimonio? ?Quiere tener paz? ?Quiere sentir intimidad? ?Quiere sentirse valorado? Entonces, pruebe un poco de Amor y respeto. Basado en Efesios 5.33 y vasta investigacion biblica y psicologica, el doctor Emerson Eggerichs revela por que los espsos reaccionan negativamente el uno con el otro, y como pueden tratar con este conflicto rapida, facil y biblicamente.

Cada día tenemos el potencial de cometer errores al hablar y al escribir. Este libro trata de evitar los malos entendidos y facilitar compresión en la comunicación. Este libro trata acerca de cuatro cosas que debemos considerar antes de comunicar. ¿Cuándo aprenderemos? A diario encontramos nuevos casos en los que las personas actuan antes de pensar solo para luego arrepentirse. Las redes sociales lo dicen: ¡se trata de socializar! Los métodos de comunicación actuales permiten la transmisión potencial de cualquier cosa desde Pekin, Illinois a Pekín, China. Pero no sólo los fanáticos de Twitter pueden tener este problema. Cada uno de nosotros es capaz de caer presa de esta creciente plaga. Tenemos el potencial de cometer errores al hablar y al escribir. Es el mismo caso si hablamos con un extraño en la carnicería, o por teléfono con nuestra madre, o si enviamos un correo electrónico a un colega; podemos tener y en efecto tenemos problemas de comunicación y las personas podrían percibir una idea errónea. Cuando no pausamos lo suficiente para pensar antes de hablar o escribir, a menudo se produce un malentendido y causa una discusión. Terminamos siendo la persona que dice, «¿Conoce esa parte del cerebro que nos impide decir algo que no debemos? Bien, yo no la tengo». Este libro trata de evitar los malos entendidos y facilitar la compresión en la comunicación. Dicho de otra manera, trata de anticiparse a que las personas reciban la idea equivocada y les permita obtener la idea correcta! Todos necesitamos trabajar en esta área de forma más intencional. Partiendo de ejemplos externos a conflictos internos, este libro trata las cuatro cosas que debemos pensar antes de comunicar. Es sabio hacernos las siguiente preguntas antes de decir o escribir: • ¿Es verdad? • ¿Es cordial? • ¿Es necesario? • ¿Es claro? Cuando respondemos honestamente a estas cuatro preguntas, pensamos sabiamente antes de hablar. Pero para una exploración más profunda, necesitamos conocer más acerca de nosotros mismos y descubrir por qué consciente y subconscientemente caemos en estos problemas de comunicación en un inicio. Puede que nos soprenda lo que descubramos sobre nosotros mismos. ¿Comenzamos?

Al igual que Emerson Eggerichs transformó millones de relaciones matrimoniales con un entendimiento bíblico del amor y el respeto, ahora dirige esos principios a una de las relaciones más importantes de todas: una madre y su hijo. El amor es importante, pero el respeto es la clave al corazón de tu hijo. La idea de que las mamás respeten a sus hijos puede sonar ajena para algunos, pero también parece encender curiosidad. Es fácil identificarse con la necesidad que todos sentimos del amor de una madre, pero ¿es eso lo mismo que respeto? Incluso para los niños pequeños, el efecto del respeto no es nada menos que asombroso cuando se aplica apropiadamente. Las mamás desean aprender cualquier cosa que les ayude con sus hijos. Después de todo, aman a sus hijos, pero a muchas de ellas les resulta más difícil criarlos que a las niñas, especialmente desde los cuatro años de edad en adelante. Lo que hace que todo esto sea más urgente es que las mamás están entrenando a los padres para amar a sus hijas, pero nadie ha dicho nada a las mamás sobre cómo mostrar respeto a sus hijos, al menos no de una forma que sea aplicable y completamente explicada. Todos entienden que las niñas pequeñas necesitan el amor de papá, pero ¿quién está promocionando con fuerza la verdad de que los niños pequeños (y los grandes) necesitan el respeto de mamá? No es extraño que las madres sientan que no saben nada sobre este tema. Al igual que Emerson Eggerichs transformó millones de relaciones matrimoniales con un entendimiento bíblico del amor y el respeto, ahora dirige esos principios a una de las relaciones más importantes de todas: una madre y su hijo.

Un estudio a fondo del motivo por el cual los estilos decomunicación de ustedes no están equivocados, ¡solo son diferentes! Por fin una respuesta al problema número uno en losmatrimonios, ¡la comunicación! Este análisis de los principios vitalesde lacomunicación entre los géneros ayuda a las parejas a reconocer quehablan doslenguajes distintos. Ellos se están enviando mensajes el uno al otro en"código" pero no podrán descifrar ese código hasta que se den cuentaque ella escucha en busca del lenguaje delamor y él escucha en busca de respeto. La mayoría de los consejos sobre este tema no comprende quelos esposos y las esposas están diseñados de manera muy distinta, y cuando secruzan los cables, ¡las chispas de la comunicación pueden salir volando! El libro de gran éxito de ventas del Dr. Eggerich, Amory respeto, inició una revolución en la manera en que las parejas serelacionan entre sí. Anteriormente titulado Descifra el código de lacomunicación.

¡El secreto del éxito de la crianza de los hijos ha sido revelado! Los estudios psicológicos afirman lo que la Biblia siempre ha dicho: los niños necesitan el amor que Dios nos dice que debemos darles (Tito 2.4). Y los padres desean el respeto que la Escritura dice claramente que es nuestro derecho (Éxodo 20.12). Amor y respeto en la familia es una guía práctica para ayudar a romper el ciclo loco de los conflictos familiares y reemplazarlo con un ritmo energizante y saludable. Basado en lo que dice la Biblia a los padres acerca de la crianza, este libro se centra en el logro de una dinámica familiar saludable. En este libro el Dr. Eggerichs nos ofrece, con una transparencia sin precedentes, la aportación de su esposa y de sus tres hijos mayores de edad, quienes comparten la sabiduría adquirida en lo bueno, lo malo y lo feo de su vida familiar. Todo está aquí en esta exploración reveladora de los principios bíblicos sobre la crianza de los hijos que pueden ayudar a que las familias funcionen como Dios manda.

Eine Frau möchte von ihrem Mann bedingungslos geliebt werden. Ein Mann möchte von seiner Frau bedingungslos respektiert werden. Dies ist das größte Geheimnis einer gelingenden Ehe. Die biblisch fundierten Prinzipien dieses Buches werden Ihnen helfen, Ihren Partner besser zu verstehen und die verborgenen Bedürfnisse des anderen wahrzunehmen. Zeigen Sie Ihrer Frau die Liebe im Alltag, nach der sie sich sehnt. Und lernen Sie, wie Sie Ihrem Mann Tag für Tag die Anerkennung und den Respekt entgegenbringen, die für ihn lebensnotwendig sind. Sie werden Ihren Partner mit völlig anderen Augen sehen - und Ihre Partnerschaft wird ungeahnte Tiefe und Vertrautheit bekommen.

Se um CEO de uma corporação multinacional compartilhar a sós com seu amigo de infância que odeia o que faz, é bem provável que ele ouvirá conselhos sinceros sobre a gestão de sua carreira. Porém, se ele usar as mesmas palavras num tuíte enviado para seus milhares de seguidores, com certeza terá sérios problemas para resolver, talvez até incontornáveis. Estudiosos do comportamento humano têm pesquisado sobre a intensidade do fluxo das informações nas mídias sociais e sua incidência nas relações entre as pessoas, tanto políticos, empresários, atores ou atletas profissionais famosos quanto anônimos que apenas desejam externar suas opiniões. Em Pense bem antes de enviar, Emerson Eggerichs fala sobre uma máxima muito antiga; pensar antes de falar. E o faz elaborando quatro perguntas: Isto é verdade? Isto é algo bom? Isto é necessário? Isto está claro? Se você já se arrependeu de ter escrito uma mensagem logo após tê-la enviado, este livro é para você.

La comunicación entre las parejas se ha analizado minuciosamente en miles de libros y artículos, entonces, ¿por qué continúa siendo el problema número uno en el matrimonio? "Porque", dice el doctor Emerson Eggerichs, "la mayoría de los cónyuges no saben que hablan dos idiomas distintos. Se envían mensajes ''codificados'', pero no descifran el código hasta que se dan cuenta que ella escucha para oír el lenguaje del amor y él escucha para oír el lenguaje del respeto". El libro de gran éxito de ventas del doctor Eggerichs, Amor y respeto, desencadenó una revolución en la manera en que las parejas se relacionan entre sí basada en Efesios 5.33: "El marido debe amar a su esposa... y la esposa debe respetar al marido". En Descifra el código de la comunicación él enseña a las parejas a hablar el idioma evidentemente distinto del otro: respeto para él, amor para ella. El resultado es comprensión mutua y un matrimonio exitoso y devoto.

¡Un Devocional como ningún otro! Con su libro de éxito internacional, Amor y respecto, Emerson Eggerichs ha transformado matrimonios en todo el mundo, a través de su enfoque basado en la Biblia ayuda a entender el amor que ella tanto desea y el respeto que él desesperadamente necesita. Ahora, en esta esperada publicación, Emerson ha creado una experiencia efectiva y flexible para las parejas, que cambiará sus vidas. Para crear este devocional, Eggerichs ha tomado las mayores inquietudes que afloraron en una encuesta hecha a miles de parejas, y ha desarrollado 52 devocionales basados en los tres ciclos en los que se centra Amor y respeto: El Ciclo Alienante El Ciclo Gratificante El Ciclo Energizante Algunos se preguntarán –¿Por qué 52 devocionales y no 365, como otros libros para parejas que he visto? La investigación del autor revela que los matrimonios no quieren tener que ver tanto material, tan a menudo. Por lo tanto, los devocionales específicos, que pueden hacerse por semana o al ritmo deseado, están especialmente orientados a lo que las parejas han considerado más necesario. Además, este es un devocional amigable para el esposo, está escrito y diseñado de tal manera que el esposo se sentirá cómodo en todo el proceso.

Der Bestseller "Liebe & Respekt" hat die Beziehung von Millionen von Ehepaaren auf der ganzen Welt bereichert. Ehemänner lernten, wie wichtig es ist, ihren Frauen Liebe zu zeigen. Und Ehefrauen verstanden, dass Respekt das ist, was ihre Männer sich am meisten von ihnen wünschen. Nun hat der Theologe und Familientherapeut Emerson Eggerichs die wichtigsten Aspekte aus dem Bestseller entnommen und 52 Andachten dazu entwickelt, die das Prinzip von Liebe & Respekt ganz praktisch werden lassen. Bereichern auch Sie Ihr Eheleben!

一本可以完全改變你與配偶關係的書 u009f 2005 ECPA 金書獎最佳婚姻書籍 u009f 2007 Family Christian Stores全年最佳書籍 u009f 原著及各譯本印行總數超過100萬冊 本書深入地探討夫婦的互動循環，既有男女心理的向度，又有聖經的依據；而最重要是作者道出男女雙方靈魂深處的需要—丈夫需要尊重，妻子渴求愛。從這靈魂深處的需要勾劃出夫婦相處的正向循環，細味其中，實在有很多有用的提醒。 黃麗彰博士 清泉輔導室私家執業 如果你只想讀一本有關婚姻的書，這是必然首選。它不只對已婚的有幫助，未婚的也可從中得益，它可以改變你的生命。 張聯強牧師（Edmound Teo） 基督教國際神召會主任牧師 我有一個信念，相信聖經的真理是有準確的心理導向作用。作者從以弗所書看到妻子需要無條件的愛、丈夫需要無條件的尊重，是開啟夫妻溝通和相處的鑰匙。誠意向每一對想透過了解男女之別來改進婚姻的夫婦推介此書。 區祥江博士 中國神學研究院 莫國治．鄭惠貞教席教授（輔導科） 有些基督徒婚姻出問題的導火線，不一定是第三者出現，或經濟拮据；而是婚後兩人誤解「愛」與「尊重」，由領會之分歧到冷漠，由產生之誤會到分手。簡言之，「性格不合」、「缺乏了解」，不是痛苦半生，便是離異收場。若能從此書之提示及早回到聖經的教導，謙卑順服而行，婚姻悲劇是可以避免的，也不會禍延下一代。 樓恩德牧師 尖沙咀潮人生命堂‧義務顧問 《女人要愛‧男人要尊重》像暢銷書《男女大不同》一樣，是有關夫婦不同的需要。不同的地方是它從聖經的教導巧妙地帶出夫婦之別與恩愛婚姻之祕訣。這是一本夫婦必讀的書！ 李耀全博士 加拿大列治文華人宣道會前主任牧師 資深個人、婚姻與家庭治療師

Was möchte Gott ganz konkret von mir? Wie kann ich seinen Willen für die großen und kleinen Entscheidungen in meinem Leben erkennen und umsetzen? Bestsellerautor Emerson Eggerichs ist überzeugt: Auf der Suche nach Gottes Willen findet man in der Bibel eindeutige Antworten. Vor allem vier konkrete Aussagen machen seine Prioritätenliste für uns Menschen zu einem offenen Geheimnis. Dieses Buch hilft dabei, Gottes Willen sowohl für die nächste Entscheidung als auch für das gesamte Leben zu entdecken. Eine wertvolle Orientierungshilfe für ein gelingendes Leben.

Elvállaljam ezt a munkát? Hagyjam ott az állásom? Kezdjek egy új kapcsolatot? Költözzel el? Maradjak? Honnan tudhatjuk meg, mi lehet Isten akarata életünk sorsdöntő kérdéseiben? Mit szólnánk hozzá, ha teljes szabadságot kapnánk ezekben a döntésekben? Emerson Eggerichs vallja, hogy Isten akarata a Biblia alapján világos, és könnyen megismerhető. A szerző közel húsz éven át a Michigan állambeli Lansigben működő Trinity Church vezető pásztora volt, mielőtt útjára indította a Szeretet és Tisztelet konferenciákat. Ezt megelőzően barátjával együtt a "The Open Door" tanácsadó központot vezették a lowa állambeli Cedar Rapidsban. Munkája során azt tapasztalta, hogy a hozzá tanácsért fordulókhoz hasonlóan ő maga is nehéz döntésekkel szembesül, és tudni akarta, vajon ezek a döntések Isten akarata szerint valók-e. Több évtizedes alapos bibliatanulmányozás során olyan egyszerű és világos alapelveket és igazságokat fedezett fel, amelyek vele együtt sokak számára jelentettek szabadulást. Ez a könyv jó kiindulópontul szolgál, ha szeretnénk megismerni Isten akaratát, hogy azt szem előtt tartva hozhassuk meg életünk nagy döntéseit és éljük mindennapjainkat. Útmutatót kapunk, amely segít megtalálni a rég vágyott szabadságot, majd a szerzőhöz hasonlóan másokat is segíthetünk, hogy megtalálják azt. Emerson Eggerichs a Szeretet és tisztelet kötetek New York Times bestseller szerzője. Feleségével, Sarah-val együtt vezetett nagy sikerű Szeretet és Tisztelet konferencia-sorozataik Egyesült Államok-szerte népes közönséget vonzanak.

Based upon Ephesians 5:33 and extensive biblical and psychological research, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs reveals the power of unconditional love and unconditional respect and how husbands and wives can reap the benefits of marriage that God intended.--Publisher description.

Psicólogos afirmam que o relacionamento homem-mulher somente ocorre de modo saudável quando ele a ama, e ela o respeita. Para Emerson Eggerichs, a relação entre a necessidade de amor e de respeito no relacionamento conjugal tem tudo a ver com o tipo de casamento. E à medida que ambos teimam em desrespeitar essa lei básica da convivência do casal, dão vazão ao que Emerson Eggerichs denomina ciclo insano, que, sem dó nem piedade, destrói a harmonia conjugal. Quando o marido se sente desrespeitado, é difícil para ele amar a esposa. Quando a esposa não se sente amada, é difícil para ela respeitar o marido.